Love yourself when people disrespect you

Love yourself when people disrespect you then what we need to do when someone abuse me we always reply with abuses even with more abuses. we don't need to over react  love yourself when people  disrespect you   it's about someone magnifying glass which is seeing. No one else knows me better than me I love myself it's enough 

All the D&B have all the wisdom we have we share it with people whom we love because we want to see them in a good mood but  we don't share a very beautiful relationship with ourselves and  that's why when are hurt we go on talking wrong things  to our self to other people we say don't take it so personally to our self we will say how can I not take it personally  to other people we will say it was not about you to myself . I will say obviously it was about me , he said it about me  so we have a very different conversation with other people and we have a very different conversation with ourselves because about them we want them to be in a good we want them to forgive we want them  to be happy to ourselves we live like  a victim we live like a Wickam  who believes that when people hurt me I have the right to be in pain and that's why what meditation does is first  allows me to start loving myself  because the first relationship that I will create will be myself  and when I start creating that relationship with myself  and I start loving myself and I start respecting myself then  what people say about me will not affect me because I know my self  I called a girl fat but she did not she obsessed just laugh  when I asked her why did you not react then she replied that it wasn't about me  exactly we should do same thing b when someone says about you any negative view because it's about my magnifying glass which is seeing   her fat it's about my definition of thin and fat , it's about my perspective of what I believe is the right weight  it's always about me so she will not loving herself if I call her fat and now it's not just me if we all together  also called her fat she will not feel bad yes I know it's not just about me if all together say about me , if The world say about me that's when we are able to be alone and let the world say what they  want to say about me  I know who I'm how do I know who i'm because everyday I sit with him and talk about myself check, myself see my strengths see  my weakness now it could happen the other way around also if I said that girl i, she is slim in trim but actually she is too fat I can say that which means I have a weakness and the whole and the whole world is telling me oh you're perfect  I'm not to believe that I have to check  weakness  and change I don't have many and yet the world seems to be talking only about my weaknesses I'm not believe that because where I was I know where I'm heading and I know where I have reached and I know where I am  going because no one else knows me better than me .No one else knows me but why are we always dependent on what people have to say about us  why are we always dependent that's when my self-respect becomes dependent on what people say about me  that's when people don't say nice things about me I get hurt or where don't do nice things to me I get hurt  and I say they disrespected me  they insulted me they rejected me . Nobody can disrespect me there's  only one person who can disrespect me there's no  one who can reject me only one person I mean even  if the whole world does not talk nicely to me if   I talk nicely to myself inside I'll  always be happy

The soul needs to travel light only then will the soul be happy peaceful you know we say when somebody leaves rest in peace  they won't be able to rest in peace if  they didn't live in peace  they cannot rest in peace which   means if you were not in peace while you were in the costume you cannot be in peace when  you leave the costume when we meditate daily and we connect to that supreme power when we don't get affected by  what people are saying about us then doing this is going to become very very  easy so we don't reflect we don't so we only transform angels are transformers

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